Women, like men, frequently find ourselves in situations where we're you're simply damned if you do and damned if you don't. I meet a guy, we have a good time, we exchange numbers, we text, I propose a phone conversation, he agrees, and then I never hear from him again? Seriously? As an adult male you choose to just ignore me? Now of course this puts in me in a situation that I find very confusing. I now have 2 choices:
1. I ignore him and pretend to be busy and carefree (when in reality I'm annoyed)
2. I speak my mind and potentially get labeled a total psycho
Now each of these choices of course have consequence and naturally I have no way of knowing what would really happen, but here are the scenarios I've cooked up.
1a. He's really just forgetful or perhaps totally socially inept. I ignore him thinking he's blowing me off and really he's too nervous to call so I miss out.
2a. I call him, probably say something snarky and MAYBE rude. He thinks I'm a complete psycho
2b. I call him, he's super excited, and we see each other again! (hurray!)
Did that make any sense?
Why must this be so complicated? If you're not interested just tell me for fuck's sake.
cause telling you would be the easy way out lol love ya
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